Sunday, May 31, 2009

Wednesday, May 27, 2009

Long weekend episode

Had a very long weekend but it was a very tiring day, lately I haven’t have enough time for myself, I don’t even have time to take a rest, there’s poccito my prince who always wanted to play and keep on calling with me daddy3x in a louder high pitch, well of course I’m doing my best to at least have time with him since we’ll be expecting another prince in a couple of days, Being a father to poccito was very hard since he demand lot of attentions he even pooh most of the time or three to four times a day mostly after he feeds, I need to get up from my catnap cause he will keep saying tata wash (means he got pooh and wanted to get wash immediately). Sometimes I think about what to do? Can I sustain this kind of lifestyle? Actually we already on our way to hired a nanny for him but on the day that she was supposed to start she just back out don’t know what’s the reason, but all this hard times becomes ineffectual every time a smile appeared on the face of this little prince of mine, what a great reward, by just a simple smile from him makes me feel revitalize, like he was saying daddy I’m fine your doing good I am proud that you are my father, specially now that we don’t have a luxury to treat him out a simple playtime with him would be enough to make his day complete.

My wife ob-gyne has already confirmed that she might get labor for our second baby anytime from now, but it will be crucial for the child since it’s still under a week ahead and it might cause us a lot of means just to finance the laboratories for the baby, so she insisted my wife not now make it the other week, She gave us a package for our expenses in the hospital, my wife choose painless which will cost us around 32-38k for normal delivery, she also informed us that my wife anistisiologist is the same person who have Sharon Cuneta and forgot the other one, she’s the famous anistisiologist we have in the Philippines, a very low profile person we have but certainly the best.
Well I hope things will turn out well, all of this everyday expenditure really make us a lot of headache, especially on how we will finance all of this expenses we just rely everything upstairs and keep on praying to help us in all our needs.

Kyle singers are on a leave right now since most of my members are already abroad (Macau). Last year I’ve decided to recruit new members but unfortunately things did not work out for us, so I need to decide to at least have a rest for the group for the meantime, and now I’m here again trying to revive the group and contacted some of that new members, but having difficulty reaching them, so I realized that it would be better if I go on a solo, this will be more interesting and more challenging since I will do everything alone, I’m not new to this since I was a doing this before when I’m still a resident singer in SNDT parish, I see this also as an advantage and a good source of profit for me since I do not need to share the earnings to otherJ, but I’m still not closing the door to anyone that wanted to join me, but for the meantime I’ll do it alone, and besides the competition for wedding singers is a lot much more tougher now since there are a lot group coming out doing their own raket thing, so it will be my advantage for having much cheaper price compared to them since I’m the only person that they need to pay.

Thursday, May 21, 2009

Pursuit of Happynness


Christopher Paul Gardner (born February 9, 1954 in Milwaukee, Wisconsin) is a self-made millionaire, entrepreneur, motivational speaker, and philanthropist who, during the early 1980s, struggled with homelessness while raising his toddler son, Christopher, Jr. Gardner's book of memoirs was published in May 2006. As of 2006, he is CEO of his own stockbrokerage firm, Gardner Rich & Co, based in Chicago, Illinois where he resides when he is not living in New York City. Gardner credits his tenacity and success to his "spiritual genetics" handed down to him by his mother, Bettye Jean Triplett, née Gardner, and to the high expectations placed on him by his children, Chris Jr. (born 1981) and his daughter, Jacintha (born 1985). Gardner's personal struggle of establishing himself as a stockbroker while managing fatherhood and homelessness is portrayed in the 2006 motion picture The Pursuit of Happyness, starring Will Smith.

Thursday, May 7, 2009

Preface

Finally I decided to make my own blog that tells everything about my self, this will be my way of letting everyone knows the magnificence and the unseen character of mine.


I was born in Leyte but my parents decided to move here in manila when I was 2, I have two brothers and a sister I’m the eldest of the four, my father died of lung cancer last year of 2008, it was the tragic experience of our family, being left by a person we love so much was a very painful thing that we have ever felt in our life, so far we still trying to recover from that loss, until now the whole family still can’t accept as true, my god it was so fast, he’s so young to die (he was at his 50’s only)that’s the question that always comes up in our mind, and because of this I realized the importance of life, all the wasted time that I wish I could spent with him until his last breath but I didn’t.

Now I know what my father goes through during my first day here at the human race as I am building my own family, it is such an overwhelming experience to be a father, and as of now life must go on and face the reality and the challenges of life, and now everybody is doing their way to deal with that experience, my sister is in the states with his husband and my brothers are staying with my mom, we hope we could recover from this pain soon.